Lucas Voclere

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Qualified Psychosynthesis Counsellor, I am a Queer (he/they), neurodivergent & GSRD (Gender, Sex & Relationships Diversity) Therapist, working online, both in English and French.

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GSRD Therapist

October 15, 2025 by Lucas Voclere

— a Gender, Sexual, and Relationship Diversity Therapist practises inclusively, compassionately, and consciously with awareness of the full spectrum of human identity and connection. It goes beyond acceptance; it is a commitment to active affirmation, anti-oppressive practice, and ongoing learning in support of all clients’ right to authenticity and self-determination.

 

🌈Understanding GSRD

As described by Silva Neves (2023, Therapy Today), gender, sex, sexuality, and relationship diversity together encompass a wide and complex range of human experiences:

  • Gender diversity includes people who are cisgender, transgender, agender, bigender, crossdressers, genderqueer, genderfluid, or nonbinary, as well as Indigenous gender identities historically marginalised by colonial frameworks.

  • Biological sex diversity includes intersex people — those whose sex characteristics don’t fit binary notions of “male” or “female.”

  • Sexuality diversity embraces the full spectrum of sexual orientation and identity, including those on the asexual spectrum and those who engage in sex work, BDSM, kink, fetish, or power-exchange as authentic expressions of erotic identity.

  • Relationship diversity includes aromantic, polyamorous, nonmonogamous, swinging, and sex work relationships, as well as monogamous or monogamish partnerships.

 

🌈 R.I.S.E. — Core Principles of a GSRD Therapist

R — Reflection & Responsibility
A commitment to continual learning, self-awareness, and accountability. This includes ongoing education around trauma, attachment, cultural and sexology theories, as well as sensitivity to evolving language, research, and community contexts.

I — Intersectionality & Inclusion
Understanding how race, culture, class, disability, and religion intersect with gender, sexuality, and relationship experience — and cultivating spaces that honour and celebrate all identities and relationships as natural expressions of human diversity.

S — Safety & Solidarity
Offering a trauma-informed, non-judgmental space where clients can feel seen and supported — especially those who have experienced stigma, discrimination, or medicalised harm. Safety is both emotional and relational, grounded in compassion and mutual respect.

E — Empowerment & Equity
Supporting each client’s journey toward authenticity, embodiment, intimacy, and belonging, while also recognising the broader systems of oppression that impact well-being. This involves fostering personal agency, social justice, and community care.


🌈Ethos of Practice

To practise from a GSRD perspective is to:

  • Recognise that diversity is the norm, not the exception.

  • Challenge shame, stigma, and restrictive social narratives around love, sex, and identity.

  • View therapy as a space for liberation, healing, and celebration — where every form of connection is valid and valued.


🌈Why It Matters

Traditional therapy models often reflect narrow, heteronormative, mononormative and cisnormative assumptions about what is “healthy” or “normal.” The GSRD approach expands that framework — situating wellbeing within the context of diversity, justice, and human dignity.

To be a GSRD therapist is to hold space for the full expanse of human experience — not as deviation, but as a vital expression of what it means to be human in all its diversity.



October 15, 2025 /Lucas Voclere
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After many years of being a Registered Member of the British Association for Counselling & Psychotherapy (MBACP), and abiding by the BACP ethical framework, I became in 2024 an Accredited Registrant Member of the National Counselling & Psychotherapy Society (NCPS) and will abide by the NCPS ethical framework.

 
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