RELATIONSHIP THERAPY FOR EVERY KIND OF CONNECTION

Inclusive, affirming, and grounded in Gender, Sexual, and Relationship Diversity (GSRD)*

Human relationships are beautifully varied — shaped by love, care, culture, and connection in all their forms. Whether your relationship is romantic, sexual, platonic, familial, or communal, therapy can help you understand one another more deeply, communicate more clearly, and nurture bonds built on authenticity and respect.

I can offer a free initial 15 minutes consultation to address any questions you might have and see if we could be a good therapeutic match.

Then, if we decide to work together, we will start with an initial collective session (couple or more depending on your situation) and try to decide from the start about the frequency of our sessions and time slots. Ad-hoc sessions and flexible time slots from one week to another can be available depending on your circumstances and therapeutic goals.

Before the second collective session, we will have individual sessions. The purpose of those individual sessions is to gather any personal history and context around upbringing, traumas, previous relationships, elements you might feel apprehensive to discuss in the collective sessions etc. Throughout our work, it will be possible to request occasionally other individual sessions to assist the collective work.

From then on, we will mainly focus on the collective sessions with the pre-agreed conditions.

THERAPY FOR ROMANTIC AND/OR SEXUAL RELATIONSHIPS

Supporting couples, throuples, quads, and polycules — monogamous and ethically non-monogamous alike

• Exploring desire, mismatched libidos, or sexual expression

• Rebuilding after ruptures or betrayals

• Co-creating agreements and expectations that feel fair and sustainable for everyone involved

• Tailoring a relationship beyond norms and preconceived expectations

Whether you are part of a long-term monogamous partnership, a polyamorous constellation, or an evolving open relationship, therapy supports you in finding clarity, compassion, and connection on your own terms.

THERAPY FOR FAMILY, FRIENDS & OTHER SMALL GROUPS

Healing and strengthening non-romantic connections

• Managing caregiving roles, household responsibilities, or shared living situations

• Navigating cultural or value-based differences within families or communities

This work is grounded in collaboration, compassion, and respect for each person’s individuality — helping groups find ways to reconnect, repair, and move forward with understanding.

Understanding GSRD

As described by Silva Neves (2023, Therapy Today), gender, sex, sexuality, and relationship diversity together encompass a wide and complex range of human experiences:

• Gender diversity includes people who identify as cisgender, transgender, agender, bigender, crossdressers, genderqueer, genderfluid, or nonbinary, as well as Indigenous gender identities historically marginalised by colonial frameworks.

• Biological sex diversity includes intersex people — those whose sex characteristics don’t fit binary notions of “male” or “female.”

• Sexuality diversity embraces the full spectrum of sexual orientation and identity, including those on the asexual spectrum and those who engage in BDSM, kink, fetish, or power-exchange as authentic expressions of erotic identity.

• Relationship diversity includes aromantic, polyamorous, nonmonogamous, swinging, and sex work relationships, as well as monogamous or monogamish partnerships.

  
  

The Role of the GSRD Therapist

A GSRD therapist provides a therapeutic environment that is non-pathologising, celebratory, and client-centred. This includes:

• Celebration: Honouring clients’ identities and relationships as natural expressions of human diversity.

• Safety: Offering space free from stigma and judgment, especially for those who have experienced discrimination or medicalised harm.

• Intersectionality: Understanding how race, culture, class, disability, and religion intersect with gender, sexuality, and relationship experience.

• Empowerment: Supporting each client’s journey toward authenticity, embodiment, intimacy, and belonging.

• Reflection: Committing to continual learning and sensitivity to evolving language, research, and community contexts.

  
  

Ethos of Practice

To practise from a GSRD perspective is to:

• Recognise that diversity is the norm, not the exception.

• Challenge shame, stigma, and restrictive social narratives around love, sex, and identity.

• View therapy as a space for liberation, healing, and celebration — where every form of connection is valid and valued.

Why It Matters

Traditional therapy models often reflect narrow, heteronormative, mononormative and cisnormative assumptions about what is “healthy” or “normal.” The GSRD approach expands that framework — situating wellbeing within the context of diversity, justice, and human dignity.

To be a GSRD therapist is to hold space for the full expanse of human experience — not as deviation, but as a vital expression of what it means to be human in all its diversity.

Flexibility is the main perk any online therapeutic work can provide. This is why this service is growing so much lately. Individuals with lack of time, lack of mobility (handicap, no transportation...) and/or lack of access to therapy request more and more the possibility to get a therapeutic service online. For some it might also be easier than having to go to a specific place due to their fear of being seen going to therapy and their own judgement about people seeking help. That in itself would be something worth addressing in therapy. Other reasons and circumstances may occur. In any scenario, your reasons for choosing the online setting over the face to face setting would need to be addressed before and at the beginning of the therapeutic work. I would advise not to hesitate to review those reasons and your choice of setting. This could come both from your initiative or mine. 

Is there any imperative?

Making sure you understand how to use safely and confidentially the technology involved is an imperative of any online practice. Confidentiality is crucial. You need to make sure, - especially when sharing computers -, that no one will access your credentials, any written content about your sessions and even in some cases the fact that you are in therapy and with whom, if you wish to keep the latter information private.

Though there is no dedicated therapeutic space per say, the quality of space and its privacy are key. Ideally, you will always use the same space to participate to the regularity and continuity essentials to the therapeutic process. Ideally, you will avoid having your sessions in your bedroom as it is one of the most charged personal space that can be. The quality of sitting is also to be considered. You will also make sure as much as possible that there will be no disturbance to any of your sessions. That includes not having to worry about someone potentially able to listen to your ongoing session.

How does it differ from Face to Face Counselling?

Though it does offer a great flexibility which might come with a great piece of mind in notably preventing you some anxiety regarding the commute or else, online counselling doesn't offer the same quality of holding both in terms of space and of the Counsellor's presence.

Having a dedicated space for therapy can create a very unique holding, notably due to its neutrality (no involvement in your private life outside therapy). Many have written about the benefits of the therapeutic space.

Online Counselling will require for you to use a personal or professional space not specifically dedicated to your therapy. A space charged with other memories, attachment or reluctance, emotions and thoughts that might burden in a certain way and to a certain extent your therapeutic time. For some, this pre-existing content can be experienced as a reassuring familiarity that may or may not prevent you to expose yourself the same way you would in a face to face setting.

Knowing how to gradually expose yourself with the growing trust in the therapeutic relationship and the organic unfolding of the therapy is an essential and beneficial aspect of any therapeutic process. No matter how you experience the space you will use for your online sessions, this experience and the experience of the online setting itself will need to be addressed in therapy to prevent it from impacting negatively onto your process.

Being physically in presence of your Therapist/Counsellor/Psychotherapist is another asset of the face to face setting. The physical presence and its energy tend to benefit greatly the bonding with the practitioner, - bonding essential to the therapeutic process -, and the holding the latter can provide. Also, when working with humanistic methods such as Psychosynthesis which involves notably the awareness of the client's body language, the online setting reduces what can be read for your benefit. On another hand, the online setting may provide sometimes a greater reading of facial expressions. When possible, I would advise that we meet face to face before engaging into an online therapeutic work together.

Is it to say that online counselling is less effective than face to face counselling? you might wonder. I believe there is no clear answer to that, no matter the researches and personal/professional views one may have. I will say that I don't believe this is adapted to everyone's personality/identity and situation. I can say that I have seen it working as effectively as needed. I will also reinforce the need in any therapeutic setting to discuss regularly how you are experiencing the process, its setting and the therapeutic relationship.

Remember: therapy should always be a safe, accepting, respectful, supportive and holding partnership between you and me to work toward improving your well-being and mental health. When I say mental health, I mean the whole integrated health: physical, emotional, psychological and spiritual.

How to choose?

You will need to reflect with yourself and then with myself on the reasons of your hesitation and/or choice. Is it a matter of convenience? Is it laziness to commute and what could it say about your readiness to commit and engage in your therapeutic journey? Is it because it is either online therapy or no therapy at all due to your personal circumstances? If it is the latter, the choice might be easy: get the support you feel you need and that you can get. 

When both options are possible to you, take the time to wonder. What attracts you in both options? What are the aspects you don't like about each option? If you were to choose the online setting, would you meet its imperatives? Now that you have read a bit about the differences between the two settings, do you feel any of the setting could meet your needs? Please, don't forget that my work doesn't start when we meet but beforehand to help you address this choice and any other questions/hesitations you might have.